tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-49199025199788190942024-03-05T07:29:15.581+01:00My world , Your worldWe talk relationship. Heart to heart talksoliviasdiaryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02334833500357789322noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4919902519978819094.post-71086470835133380162022-08-12T22:35:00.002+01:002022-08-12T22:35:44.538+01:00Get your Dapper Acemenswear Suits with Ease<p></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHjUJz98ywgq1mGlairUb2R8HyV97FYRsgR3FeVXbJvbV0e3oXzAu1P1Qw6oTdudC1ojwsK6Ea7HSxJOHcSlBjfk8cd3mwqXAf6RZLMfIvn_wSJXrNJROBwI47OBC8Aj7aTA_ETKgVwE9X59UHHg-RJlf3aPsp0hX-ARhs5ZKVtLuRyLxEk5Q3ALz3/s900/1641373171932_0.jpeg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="600" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHjUJz98ywgq1mGlairUb2R8HyV97FYRsgR3FeVXbJvbV0e3oXzAu1P1Qw6oTdudC1ojwsK6Ea7HSxJOHcSlBjfk8cd3mwqXAf6RZLMfIvn_wSJXrNJROBwI47OBC8Aj7aTA_ETKgVwE9X59UHHg-RJlf3aPsp0hX-ARhs5ZKVtLuRyLxEk5Q3ALz3/s320/1641373171932_0.jpeg" width="213" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://www.acemenswear.com/baldwin-bespoke-black-3-pieces-custom-wedding-suit-for-grooms.html" target="_blank">Baldwin Bespoke Black 3 Pieces Custom Wedding Suit For Grooms</a></td></tr></tbody></table><br /><p>Alot of times, we hear side talks that the fashion industry seems to be concentrating more on the female fashion pieces and by that I mean doling out amazing and trendiest styles for the females, forgetting about the males but this is me standing here to tell you that it is not true and that in fact the men fashion is literally taking over the world.<span></span></p><a name='more'></a><p></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWbvi8JQteLADR5aJW6gpRpbZrKfQTuYGnO0Gxir5gAqx_rM5tokj1grCHGIh4sjtZKck8n6s1qdZCpC8AYT3-COU-ePwQs19ATmPfV90sTM8PPsOxXt9V1g61poA-tojDF0Z98A98icXaxoh37U_WnWqJBFDR0ZraFK-m0b8kVOF9NQdD9GBdN7gs/s900/1640845328407_0.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="600" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWbvi8JQteLADR5aJW6gpRpbZrKfQTuYGnO0Gxir5gAqx_rM5tokj1grCHGIh4sjtZKck8n6s1qdZCpC8AYT3-COU-ePwQs19ATmPfV90sTM8PPsOxXt9V1g61poA-tojDF0Z98A98icXaxoh37U_WnWqJBFDR0ZraFK-m0b8kVOF9NQdD9GBdN7gs/s320/1640845328407_0.jpg" width="213" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://www.acemenswear.com/chic-burgundy-best-fitted-wedding-suits-with-black-lapel.html" target="_blank">Chic Burgundy Best Fitted Wedding Suits with Black Lapel</a></td></tr></tbody></table><br /><p>Men's fashion clothing's are super beautiful and head-turning most especially their fashion staple which is the suits and you can attest to that from the arrays of collection lines up on <a href="https://www.acemenswear.com/" target="_blank">Acemenswear</a>.</p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhjifEC-gESjbkTtO84zVsEydVkUSNXeVnGJlz9hqCZ4yKOFplw8kz5usCcP3-ohGlAEcPym8LX_cE9ClzsIDDqGN3OlBKCiP2VF4lkRbN7IBw_8ddqGdEBc4Q5qt9JDKUCzhx-QWDRw2spIirA6R5VIf0d1atmpHj3TUwJ8VfU5V_4jY8XEOItB956/s900/1640845328441_0.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="600" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhjifEC-gESjbkTtO84zVsEydVkUSNXeVnGJlz9hqCZ4yKOFplw8kz5usCcP3-ohGlAEcPym8LX_cE9ClzsIDDqGN3OlBKCiP2VF4lkRbN7IBw_8ddqGdEBc4Q5qt9JDKUCzhx-QWDRw2spIirA6R5VIf0d1atmpHj3TUwJ8VfU5V_4jY8XEOItB956/s320/1640845328441_0.jpg" width="213" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://www.acemenswear.com/black-business-mens-suits-chic-one-buttons-wedding-suits-tuxedos.html" target="_blank">Black Business Mens Suits | Chic One buttons Wedding Suits Tuxedos</a></td></tr></tbody></table><br /><p>There is this very attractive thing about men in suits and I mean well-tailored suits that make statements. A man who knows how to rock his suits well gives the vibe of classy, well put together, strong, rich, important and dreamy and that is the image most ladies want to have of a cool man.</p><p><br /></p><p>I am always one to immense myself flipping through pictures upon pictures of very pretty/masculine <a href="https://www.acemenswear.com/wedding-suits.html" target="_blank">Wedding suit</a> that makes you wish to be the bride's of each of those gorgeous men </p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKFzCb91KLk9DnsCvZ4mtfbp4cUwZXhKAHm1p0M1MAggAf_iNss9YOos9Xl4UojBAp8Jy2Dl0lyFLKf8mTVV_J97e-4dqJqwjoEAfWEFlmTXI13IdijS6dZxOwHqcB_3QUfSbHliFn_FqeP3S6ns9JGlIF2E8kqmJEWp_SymMpl3TuQoT_ZsEgDFAU/s900/1640845328352_0.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="600" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKFzCb91KLk9DnsCvZ4mtfbp4cUwZXhKAHm1p0M1MAggAf_iNss9YOos9Xl4UojBAp8Jy2Dl0lyFLKf8mTVV_J97e-4dqJqwjoEAfWEFlmTXI13IdijS6dZxOwHqcB_3QUfSbHliFn_FqeP3S6ns9JGlIF2E8kqmJEWp_SymMpl3TuQoT_ZsEgDFAU/s320/1640845328352_0.jpg" width="213" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://www.acemenswear.com/newest-stylish-royal-blue-three-piece-prom-suits-for-men.html" target="_blank">Newest Stylish Royal Blue Three Piece Prom Suits for Men</a></td></tr></tbody></table><br /><p>If you think suits for weddings are super cute, let's take a walk down to their <a href="https://www.acemenswear.com/prom-suits.html" target="_blank">Prom suit</a> that are super dapper and with the right colors and footwear combinations, you are good to go and don't forget that you can build up your suits wardrobe with them</p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiemO9h9rafY534mr4ZAnLyX4DO1fEPvbCaEOmIeePz1Rh8PbgH1J--ypwvu9_zaDfWKUu9jIn9BdJEBHL4lB3Kub2smdHY1H2LdyjSycgb3wW99eaaJcSTEHiVwlaR6k_3lzbXeJgsXh1Hi6TQEDFfuveeKt0r0trTM6yFM4fm8S66WVzu7FBGuXv7/s900/1640845328367_1.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="600" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiemO9h9rafY534mr4ZAnLyX4DO1fEPvbCaEOmIeePz1Rh8PbgH1J--ypwvu9_zaDfWKUu9jIn9BdJEBHL4lB3Kub2smdHY1H2LdyjSycgb3wW99eaaJcSTEHiVwlaR6k_3lzbXeJgsXh1Hi6TQEDFfuveeKt0r0trTM6yFM4fm8S66WVzu7FBGuXv7/w213-h320/1640845328367_1.jpg" width="213" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://www.acemenswear.com/caramel-best-fitted-three-pieces-bespoke-prom-suits-for-men.html" target="_blank">Caramel Best Fitted Three-Pieces Bespoke Prom Suits for Men</a></td></tr></tbody></table><br /><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>oliviasdiaryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02334833500357789322noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4919902519978819094.post-31247495957785946352020-10-29T10:20:00.025+01:002020-10-29T12:28:11.155+01:00Classic Suits For Men From AllAboutSuit<p></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdAS7D_cKZ7cVie8iXhwZDgoZ7xlf-S0wejRaLylF-L2F8CyalZgzoUZzcuQqX_keNBqi5fwN6SX0Z1slKHbQid1xRnPm5QkNRiO7B6BqDX63SMWU98CCCFabPjjSwmYSKWeLLY3cKKM8/s800/74235f6b17f0e6afe5b8b398692b0efd.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="800" data-original-width="533" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdAS7D_cKZ7cVie8iXhwZDgoZ7xlf-S0wejRaLylF-L2F8CyalZgzoUZzcuQqX_keNBqi5fwN6SX0Z1slKHbQid1xRnPm5QkNRiO7B6BqDX63SMWU98CCCFabPjjSwmYSKWeLLY3cKKM8/s16000/74235f6b17f0e6afe5b8b398692b0efd.jpg" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://www.allaboutsuit.com/collections/prom-suits/products/fancy-emerald-green-tuxedo-unique-three-pieces-men-suits-with-velvet-lapel" target="_blank">Fancy Emerald Green Tuxedo | Unique Three Pieces Men Suits with Velvet Lapel</a><br /></td></tr></tbody></table><div>Hi everyone as we all know, we in the wedding season which means lots of weddings are going on all around us and it’s usually a beautiful sight to behold due to the arrays of colours which will be on display and with let me introduce you all to <a href="https://www.allaboutsuit.com/">allboutsuit</a> which is an online store that stock on very fine suits for our super dapper men, making them look like a million dollar bucks.<span><a name='more'></a></span></div><div><br /></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3qT4rWbjwueyQwLQEqJKqGxVfzewx5aFmDFyI97qYHTFKCPyv18PCcPaSZLTpuK69Oy8hNXdEquxX5Shyphenhyphen8NrQacCjHJ5DCdu-gCRiSrOUgnw_z9XTIz_-7pZp0d62zhTzO2diAUkvOfI/s800/6759d23e23775d187bfdf2fd7b5bc239.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="800" data-original-width="533" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3qT4rWbjwueyQwLQEqJKqGxVfzewx5aFmDFyI97qYHTFKCPyv18PCcPaSZLTpuK69Oy8hNXdEquxX5Shyphenhyphen8NrQacCjHJ5DCdu-gCRiSrOUgnw_z9XTIz_-7pZp0d62zhTzO2diAUkvOfI/s16000/6759d23e23775d187bfdf2fd7b5bc239.jpg" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://www.allaboutsuit.com/collections/prom-suits/products/burgundy-velvet-blazer-jacket-two-pieces-shawl-lapel-men-suits" target="_blank">Burgundy Velvet Blazer Jacket | Two Pieces Shawl Lapel Men Suits</a><br /></td></tr></tbody></table><div>This store stock up on very classy and modern day suit designs such as their <a href="https://www.allaboutsuit.com/collections/prom-suits" target="_blank">prom suits </a>which comes in various designs that range from luxe velvet to trendy printed blazers to classic in tuxedos suave colours making you never disappoint when you step out in them.</div><div><br /></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqvadKYd4EYz2Rno2VV8ZDrYfvC7ZhLTBZAvwYIO_LKw9lHrRO_pwtJM_3hvd3a8N_ODR4tDJUusO7vzkTaQ96zVKVBslBITngp0Iw3vvubhk4MH_LZl7nIiNEbe9RIRA4Z2lewXYCwro/s800/4fcef479c1b8cc9c71c91a3a170a3d0e.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="800" data-original-width="533" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqvadKYd4EYz2Rno2VV8ZDrYfvC7ZhLTBZAvwYIO_LKw9lHrRO_pwtJM_3hvd3a8N_ODR4tDJUusO7vzkTaQ96zVKVBslBITngp0Iw3vvubhk4MH_LZl7nIiNEbe9RIRA4Z2lewXYCwro/s16000/4fcef479c1b8cc9c71c91a3a170a3d0e.jpg" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://www.allaboutsuit.com/collections/wedding-suits/products/popular-silk-peak-lapel-black-mens-suits-for-wedding-one-button-stripes-cheap-wedding-tuxedo" target="_blank">Popular Silk Peak Lapel Black Mens Suits for Wedding | One Button Stripes Cheap Wedding Tuxedo</a><br /></td></tr></tbody></table>They’ve also got really cool and amazing <a href="https://www.allaboutsuit.com/collections/wedding-suits" target="_blank">wedding suits for men</a> that will leave you dripping in plenty of shades of cute. Most times everyone who comes to weddings, are always on the lookout for the dress the bride will wear, forgetting that it’s also the man’s day and he has to represent too and with this store, you are sure of representing on your very big day with having an wardrobe hitch.<br /><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMV-ws-A0fsVLkOkxl6wMl2KlwsE0n1J8ih6BcVvqtHbKHGVikvs8ohirQs8R5DeXZofemo7Nwf9civk0M8v1sdZAmiYb_iqVOA4aoV9JYjF2RmULB2yemVwMc6JS-KQNwOiEgY6UHK6c/s800/e959fe6a823ffe996e3ba69303b3c253.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="800" data-original-width="533" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMV-ws-A0fsVLkOkxl6wMl2KlwsE0n1J8ih6BcVvqtHbKHGVikvs8ohirQs8R5DeXZofemo7Nwf9civk0M8v1sdZAmiYb_iqVOA4aoV9JYjF2RmULB2yemVwMc6JS-KQNwOiEgY6UHK6c/s16000/e959fe6a823ffe996e3ba69303b3c253.jpg" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://www.allaboutsuit.com/collections/wedding-suits/products/white-jacquard-wedding-men-suits-elegant-three-pieces-dinner-suits" target="_blank">White Jacquard Wedding Men Suits | Elegant Three Pieces Dinner Suits</a><br /></td></tr></tbody></table><br /><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeUs5hJ3qdeLH1BZujwQjWSie6PCM-RWoxTNyJm5gCJt_tJ2WTy7Xnr6xuhwEoI9DwKwBhYeAQMbfCsi8IPUL4xyxLGOheE3BQBa42dzVxA_kyB8oT3UF0Gw17-E3b0qZMqu9fvTBy-_Y/s800/1bc1e7d727fb4e6570243373c77ee3b0.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="800" data-original-width="533" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeUs5hJ3qdeLH1BZujwQjWSie6PCM-RWoxTNyJm5gCJt_tJ2WTy7Xnr6xuhwEoI9DwKwBhYeAQMbfCsi8IPUL4xyxLGOheE3BQBa42dzVxA_kyB8oT3UF0Gw17-E3b0qZMqu9fvTBy-_Y/s16000/1bc1e7d727fb4e6570243373c77ee3b0.jpg" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://www.allaboutsuit.com/collections/wedding-suits/products/luxury-black-shawl-collor-one-button-wool-burgundy-wedding-suits-for-men" target="_blank">Luxury Black Shawl Collor One Button Wool Burgundy Wedding Suits for Men</a><br /></td></tr></tbody></table><br /> Sponsored post<p></p>oliviasdiaryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02334833500357789322noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4919902519978819094.post-47684445789181100362017-03-04T00:40:00.002+01:002017-03-04T00:40:30.749+01:00Am back To Full Blogging/ Happy New Year.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<br /><br />Hello everyone...<br /><br />First and foremost, this is me wising everyone a happy new year cos it feels like ages.....Am so sorry i left blogging for a while, had stuffs i was pursuing and i knew i will not be able to combine blogging and what i was doing together that's why i had to forfeit one but i thank God am a bit settled so i will be returning to full blogging and p promise ya'll that we've got fantastic topics to talk about. <a name='more'></a><br /><br />Love you all<br />Olisdiary.oliviasdiaryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02334833500357789322noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4919902519978819094.post-71492853321884968252016-04-02T11:49:00.000+01:002016-05-09T23:56:47.601+01:00When Is The Right Time To Go Into Another Relationship?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hello Oli readers. Happy New Month and am so sorry for the long absence, I had lots of engagements which involved travelling a lot but not to worry I am back to serve you guys hot topic straight from reality’s pot and will not be flip out on you all anymore again.<br />
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So for today we going to be discussing on the topic when is the right time to go into another relationship. Yes you heard right…..we just finished talking about breakup and moving on and now in the cause of moving on, some people might want to move on to another relationship but in some cases is not bad but we should try and understand that there are times in life that we just have to walk away from all the dramas so as to breathe a fresher air.<br />
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So are you among those who are willingly to give love another shot? Well this post is for you and I hope it goes a long way in helping you decided on what your next action would be. Moving unto another relationship is not bad especially if it’s not the rebound kind of relationship.<br />
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So before you get into another, you should ask yourself the following questions……<br />
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1.am I really emotionally ready for another relationship? When we say emotionally ready I simple mean will you be able to invest your total mind, heart, head and energy into that new relationship because there are some girls or guys who are that needy e.g .. Baby you not being romantic enough, baby you not sensitive to my needs and feelings, baby I want to be with you don’t want you to go away, baby come and kiss me, baby come and make love to me and the list goes on and in situations like this, the guy or the lady might not be in the mood or say right frame of mind at that moment for all that which might lead to him being edgy and in such situations, the end result is misunderstandings and fighting. Other question is<br />
2.Will I be patient and tolerant enough to endue what I went through in my previous relationship?<br />
3. there are unique qualities I admired in my ex that I might want in my present, will he/she be able to offer?<br />
4.will I be going into it for the short or long run?<br />
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Now after answering this few questions and your answers to them is negative, my dear you are not yet ready but should give it time. Like me am presently in no relationship cos i know deep down i me that am so not ready.<br />
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When you eventually decide that you not ready, use that opportunity to fall in love with yourself and by doing so, you will grow and mature more in all aspect of your life which will be a great bonus for when you will be ready to take another leap of faith towards love. Surely love will find you cos the best is waiting for you.<br />
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oliviasdiaryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02334833500357789322noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4919902519978819094.post-37379323728632864902016-03-07T01:22:00.003+01:002016-03-07T01:22:34.069+01:00Are you his or her rebound?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I know many of us might know the meaning of being one’s rebound but I will still try to explain it in a lay man’s English. What does it really mean to be someone’s rebound guy or girl? It simply means when a guy or a girl breaks up with someone, and instead of getting over him/her and then moving on to date others, he or she may get involved with someone right away as a method of helping them get over their ex or to avoid the pain of breakup…rebound relationships doesn’t always last long that is if the guy or the girl in question is still holding on tight to the memories of the ex..<a name='more'></a><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<br /><br />A rebound guy or girl is basically just been used. Girls don’t be too quick or rather too gullible to fall for a guy. If for example you meet a guy and after all the introductions and toasting’s, then you say yes to being his girlfriend, my dearies pls ask him when last was he in a relationship to help you determine your direction and by that I mean if your new boyfriend literally went through a breakup which happened say a month or two, that is probably a sign of you entering into a rebound relationship especially if he was in a long term relationship just like mine before he met you. <br /><br />It is very possible to meet a sweetheart that you genuinely like, but most people who go through a tough breakup need a good amount of time to themselves to get over their ex before they can move onto someone new. Even if he insists that he’s over her, trust me, he’s not.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<br /><br />Lemme use myself as an example… my ex and I were in a serous long term relationship that was gonna lead to marriage. we dated for 6 years but broke up Dec 2015 and I got to know that he’s already in another relationship……lol…as a girl you should know your worth…….all the nigger is tryna do is to get ova me cos you just can’t dump memories of 6yrs of your life which you spent with someone you were in love with cos no one can be as understanding and patient with him like I was………..well I wish him all the best…as for me I have not gotten over him does not mean I’ve not moved on. But my moving on is not to engage in a rebound relationship cos am just not ready for it.<br /><br />In some cases when a rebound relationship gets up to a year or more, then it is a legitimate relationship. Another point of a rebound relationship is that he will not be too quick to flaunt you about and when you try to question why, he will give the excuse of him not being the PDA kind of person lol.<br /><br />Another point you should mark is that at every given opportunity, he talks about his ex or if he does not directly talk about her just to respect your feelings,, he will stylishly want you to act or do things in the way his ex does which pleases him. At least with this few detailed points, it’s easy for you to know if you are a rebound to your new boo.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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oliviasdiaryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02334833500357789322noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4919902519978819094.post-50973210212826545522016-03-04T08:13:00.005+01:002016-03-04T08:13:54.929+01:00How Does It Feel To Be Single?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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To be single means to be free from any form of romantic relationship in whatever form or style it might present itself and by that I mean you can’t say oh I don’t have a boyfriend or a girlfriend yeah but once in a while I still kiss, smooch or even have sex….hell to the NO you are not single. Being single means you’ve either decided to stay completely away from the opposite sex or found yourself where you can’t seem to get someone to date you or you thinking something is wrong with you that no one wants to that you.<a name='more'></a><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Being single does not mean you are sick or something is wrong with you but rather it’s the state of one’s mind at a particular period of time. It’s actually liberating to be single cos it an opportunity whereby you tend to focus and work on yourself more.<br /><br />Being single is not a status, it is a word that describes a person who is strong enough to live and enjoy life without depending on others. When you single, you become the boss of your life without having to be answerable to any niggar. No one to disturb you with calls especially when you not in the mood, no one to perform FBI or CIA duties in your life…geez some guys are that controlling (God has delivered us), no one to make you feel like you a beggar or that they can enslave you all because they are spending their change called money on you..mstweeh,……… or no one to demand sex or love making from you every seceond of the day thereby ruining the chances for your future husband, or no one making you do wifely duties e.g cooking, doing the dishes or laundry like he is married to you cos even if you guys are engaged, it’s still not ok because there is no guarantee that he won’t break the engagement.…..the list goes on.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<br /><br />So you see why I said it feels really good to be single. As a girl yeah the common ideology everyone has is to look for one rich guy to be sponsoring us and all that but trust me when I tell you that it is bullshit ok … most times you don’t realize that being yourself is good but working really hard to make something of yourself is more fulfilling. <br /><br />Use this period of waiting for your Mr. right to break the jinx of being just a sex symbol and work hard to make money for yourself so that when you eventually get Mr. right, and maybe you stylishly ask him for something and he starts frowning his face, *scoff* you’ll just make him understand you a big girl and can take care of yourself…it’s just that you wanna feel good when your boyfriend spends for you.<br /><br />For now am talking to my ladies ok. Use this period of you being single to make something for yourself cos now there is no distractions from man’s wahala. Don’t be too quick to want to jump onto another relationship, take your time and you will be fine.<br /><br />Learn to hangout more with your same sex cos you will learn more don’t worry we will talk about this is subsequent post. <br /><br />So when next people ask you why an attractive, young and intelligent girl like you is single, <b>your response to them should be that you are overqualified so they can’t handle the heat.</b>oliviasdiaryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02334833500357789322noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4919902519978819094.post-70299161440521274822016-03-02T22:28:00.004+01:002016-03-02T22:28:33.867+01:00Have you Moved on?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<br /><br /> I was going through the comment on the <a href="http://olisdiary.blogspot.com.ng/2016/02/have-you-ever-fallen-in-love.html#comment-form"><b><span style="color: blue;">Have you ever fallen in love post</span></b></a> and part of the comment of Duru caught my fancy.. in his words….<b>"To this Young and utterly confused 24 year old yeah.. I think the ghen ghen Thing about Love is.. "When you want to fall into it.. Let go completely and when you want to climb outta it and leave it behind.. let Go completely as well. :) "<a name='more'></a></b><br /><br />When you out of a relationship, does not mean it’s the end of the world ok. It only means that you deserve better than what you’ve been getting. It might seem hard at first, but at the end it will be worth it. <br /><br /><div>
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Let me tell you girls something, guys move on faster than we ladies because there are some gullible girls out there who are ready to give them the chance but not to worry we are taught to give out things we no longer make use of. You can only drag a horse to the river but can never force it to drink the water. Which simply means that you might go back to your previous relationship, but can never be sure of things to get better.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<br /><br />Focus your mind on the brighter future ahead of you and you will be fine. But one first step you need to take in other to move on completely, is to learn to forgive. Forgive yourself for tolerating and staying that long, then forgive him of everything he must have done.<br /><br />You can’t totally get over someone who meant so much to you, but you just have to learn to move on because they have done the same.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<br /><br /> When you decide to get out of a relationship, like Duru said, get out completely and not halfway it’s not because you never loved him or her, but because you want to be a better person for yourself. Never have the mind that now that we done, and we give ourselves some space, he might reconsider and take me back… like seriously are you crazy? Can’t you aim higher in your emotional life ehn? Don’t you know that when you guys decide to give your relationship another trial, things will never be the same again. My dearies a broken courtship is better than a broken marriage so pack your bag and baggage and move on completely but take it slowly.<br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">
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So my lovely girls out there, move on and stop hurting yourself cos it will only get worse. The hard truth is that he ahs moved on ok so should you.Moving on completely does not mean moving onto another relationship instantly cos you will only be hurting yourself further rather move to gain more achievements and laurels for yourself cos you are a queen and queens deserve the best<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<br /><br />Never regret any relationship you've been in rather see it as a school of learning...<br /><br />YOU ARE A QUEEN AND QUEEN'S DESERVE ONLY THE BEST.oliviasdiaryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02334833500357789322noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4919902519978819094.post-78094483038242613342016-02-29T06:05:00.000+01:002016-02-29T06:05:21.894+01:00How did you manage your breakup?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Like I said in post 3, when we broke and I got home was alone and what have you, the truth is that I didn’t feel any pain to shed a tear or better still cry.. I was really calm about it even tho I was angry and wished I could have inflicted pains on him really bad and all, yet I didn’t cry for losing him.. He was the love of my life no doubt but I had trained my emotions so hard to withstand pain. I had this notion that no matter how much a man will love and cherish you, he will still hurt you and the painful one’s are usually from people who we love.<a name='more'></a><br /><br />I handled the breakup really well and about my business like nothing happened, tried to engage myself in more work and with that I thought less about him, I hanged out more with friends, watched lots of movies, basically did things to distract me and it work not until one of my bull head besties came asking questions and I had to open up to him… l ol… bad move cos he started giving me the sob story that he is mourning the demise of my relationship with my ex..hahahaha. Like serious is that not funny? He was like he is yet to beat his chest to even a month relationship, but a relationship of almost 6yrs going down the drain just like that….. despite the fact that he knew how much in love the two parties were…I had to tell him to stop talking and let me be because I’ve moved on though not to another relationship, but to empower myself better …like I say “the best revenge is to be successful”<br /><br />So there you have it I toughened myself up and am trying to be a better woman in work. Sometimes when some of my friends tell me what they go through and all, I tell them that you guys need a break from the dating game.<br /><br />There are so many ways you can handle your breakup without having to look like an emotional mess thereby making the other party think they’ve got power over you… my dearies just get up and forge ahead and you’ll find something or someone good for you out there.oliviasdiaryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02334833500357789322noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4919902519978819094.post-62215709865879162802016-02-24T05:58:00.000+01:002016-02-24T06:04:49.177+01:00Let’s remember the beautiful things that happened when we were in love.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I’ve always had like very few boyfriends …or rather lemme say i’ve had guys who ask me for a relationship, instead of saying yes or no, I just play along to see how far we could go and alas in say a week to a month into the relationship, i get tired and bored and just want out….mind you my legs were always closed…Girls you can’t always open your legs for every man you get into a relationship with you…abeg this talk will be a post for another day…..lol.…..<br />
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So when I eventually fell in love with my ex-boyfriend, like I said in my previous post, he was the best relationship I ever had cos at first even though I had fallen for him out rightly, I was still saying to myself that this might not go far, but I was wrong cos it went for more than 5 years…. He was just everything I hoped for in a guy…talk about been romantic…dayumm he was the best….he was caring, attentive. </div>
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He played the role of my friend, brother, best friend and lover so perfectly *sigh* we talked almost every second of the day and not get bored that even when we get to hang out together, there were still things to talk about.. we played, fought, kept malice and made up …..all these drew us closer cos we really shared a special bound which was like we were bound like people who entered into a blood convenant(not like we ever had a blood convenant). We had memorable romantic getaways both in and out of the country, it was more like he was living for me. </div>
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He built his world and aspirations on me that sometimes I will just look for a reason to be mad at him just so he could pet me lol…All the fake cries to get his attention and he be at my beck and call, some nights I will be sleeping and he will be half awake more like a watch dog watching over me especially when am ill…. All the movie dates we’ve had were we got to do crazy stuffs cos I taught him how to be crazy…looool…*can’t believe am actually smiling typing this* yeah yeah I know what you guys will say….Oli you were in love*…… sometimes he had to go out of his way to please me.</div>
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He always tried his possible best to satisfy me first before himself… I remember those nights when I will wake up and say to him “baby I need a break ok… I really need a break…and he will say sweery you are stucked with me, you are going nowhere I can never leave you cos <b>BREAKUP IS NOT AN OPTION</b> and that If not because I know you and everything about you, I would have said you used jazz on me…hehehehe how on earth will I wanna use black magic just to get a guy to love me, .....hell no… he knew most of my likes and dislikes, he knew my material and food obsessions and always tried to feed them. He wasn’t perfect but he was my knight in shinning amour… he hurt me in so many ways which I won’t talk about in this post cos we all about remembering the good times but in all love overshadowed the pains and we still made the relation last up to 5yrs before it collapsed.</div>
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Yes I had memorable and great love with him which I know I won’t get to forget in a hurry.<br />
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Remembering the good things about your past relationship is one step you have to take to be able to move on and have the heart and grace to forgive. Whenever we go through a breakup, there is always tendency to nurture hate and evil thoughts against that person, but trust me guys let it go by having an alone time with yourself, play the video of the once great love you shared in your head and trust me you will find yourself smiling and gradually the pain will leave…I’ve been there and it has helped a lot. You can add a twist by listening to really cool blues to water your heart down.<br />
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Because it's over does not mean you should hate yourself and forget that a word like love ever existed...no don't do that..remembering that love actually helps you love yourself once again thereby moving on faster.</div>
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So over to you guys share with us the good things you can remember and pls not the bad cos we will get there. Meet you guys in the comment section.</div>
oliviasdiaryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02334833500357789322noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4919902519978819094.post-56725615339481781702016-02-22T14:30:00.001+01:002022-08-10T22:12:35.202+01:00Have You ever Fallen in Love?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Love is a beautiful thing which I wish for every one of us to experience even if it’s just once but at least you need to experience it…. Been in love is that strong that even if you no more with that person, deep down in your heart, you know you will always care for that person.<br />
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I personally I have been in love and that magical feeling happened in 2010… it was a feeling I have never experienced in my whole life…*smiles* that was my first time been in love…… It happened that we meet on a social platform, we were in two different continent, he added me up and we got talking and while going through his pictures, I fell for him and he did same…*smiles*we started chatting like we’ve known each other for years whereas we’ve never seen each other physically. As we kept chatting, (mind you we were yet to start talking on phone) we were getting closer and closer then the days ran quickly into a week and then he told me something that made my heart skipped ….ohhhh… he said please give me your number I need to discuss something with you, and I was forming like I can’t immediately give out my no even though we’ve be chatting for a while….lol….so eventually I gave him my no and some minutes later he called and was like …. “I need to tell you something ……there is this girl I’ve been liking for a while though we’ve been talking and all but I really do like her and I have fallen heads over heels for her but the thing is that I don’t know if the feelings is mutual cos I don’t want a situation whereby I will tell her and she will turn me down” heheheheh In my mind of mind I was see this dude oooo who is he tryna play mind games with…lol…I really liked him so much that every second of the day I was always looking forward to a chat notification from him and it was never boring with him so I just told him that he should just man up and talk to the girl in question at least he will know his position with her and he was ok no problem I think that is best and I was yeah it’s what I will do if I was a guy…lol….but In my mind, I was hopefully wishing he was talking about me but didn’t wanna get my hopes high so I just had to keep my cool on phone…lol…then the next thing he said to me was like what if you are the one I am talking about………………………………………..*eyeswideopen*….immediately he said that, I just kept quiet and was like pls stop kidding me ok and he said I am dead serious AM IN LOVE WITH YOU will you agree to be my girlfriend?............wheeew…thank God he was not saying it to my face cos I would have given myself away…………………………..after he asked me to be his girlfriend, I told him to give me some time to think and he was like ok but it shouldn’t be long……for crying out loud he didn’t expect me to say yes to him out rightly nau…girls will always be girls we need to form hard to get but piece of advice when forming the hard to get type, don’t overstretch it so you won’t throw him off especially if the feeling is mutual….so back to me….. Eventually he called like say after three days and was like he wants his response….and I said YES I WOULD LOVE TO BE YOUR GIRLFRIEND.*am blushing right now* of cos why wouldn’t I say yes…no tell me…hehehe….the feelings were mutual. So we officially started dating in 2010 and sailed on smoothly for 6 months before we finally met when he came back into the country…..I was so so shy meeting him for the first time at his home…we greeted each other, hugged and when we settled in after gisting and laughing over past events in our 6months of not seeing, we eventually kissed *covers face* but don’t worry guys there was nothing like sex….i know you’ll are itching to hear that…*smiles*<br />
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Our relationship went on though we had our rough patches but one thing that kept us together was our desire to make it work…everyday seemed like we just met and for every rough time we had, it rather drew us closer and closer….he was my best friend and I was his best friend too there was nothing I didn’t know about him, ranging from family to secrets , to pin to his atm cards, passwords to his emails and social media acc’s I was his better half his partner in crime ..…we were extremely close….but alas it all came crashing down in December 2015… it was a sad day for me..but I never for once shed a tear for him not because I never loved him, No!.. but because in the cause of our relationship, I had learnt to work on my emotions, that when we parted ways I felt like you know what let it just be…maybe I needed a break from relationship…but I must admit with him was the first time I ever felt what it feels like to be in love and I will always love him and wish him the best in life… I don’t know if we are ever gonna come back again(not like I wish that) but my heart is tough to handle anything.<br />
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So My diary readers that is the little of me been in love and I want every one of us to share our stories…..pls I know some of us might or might no longer be with the person or persons(some people fall in love plenty times…lol) we first experienced what it felt like to be in love yeah but please this post is for us to bask in the good memories of when we were in love…..just lay out the good things and leave the bad out….we are taking this journey one step at a time and will surely heal at some point ok.<br />
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So let’s head to the comment section.<br />
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So we going to start from the basis which is what does the term relationship mean?....A relationship is the way in which two or more people or things are connected, or the state of being connected, or the state of being connected by blood or marriage or the way in which two or more people or groups regard and behave towards each or even a romantic or sexual friendship between two people.<br />
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we have various types of relationship ranging from employment and political relationship, family ties, family connections, blood relationship, landlord and tenant relationship or romantic relationship. There you have it the relationship term explained in a layman’s English.<br />
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So i will ask what other relationship can you think about?<br />
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Now this will lead us to the sole relationship we are talking about… the dating relationship in our next post.</div>
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You are not here by mistake so am gonna start by saying welcome to Olisdiary.com. I will be an anonymous blogger/poster because this will give me room to use some of my private life matters as an example as we commence on this relationship road together.<br />
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This blog will dwell on everything that has got to do with relationships and when I say everything, I mean everything…..there will be no restriction of words cos we are dwelling on matter of the heart.<br />
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I know the beautiful and at the same time the hellish things we all go through in our relationships be we single or married…but not to worry this blog is here to guide and answer all of your questions and if you would want to reach me privately to share your experience or you just want to have someone you can talk to, I will be here for you..i will be your best friend and your great confidant…your secrets are safe with me.<br />
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So let’s enjoy the ride together cos I will be your relationship guide and i want us to come out better and stronger and am talking to my fellow girls especially cos we are tired of been at the recieving end.<br />
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Motto: The best revenge you can give to any erring boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, husband, spouse, friend or whatever name you define your relationship, is to be successful.<br />
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I will be very much active in the comment section interacting with everyone cos this is me with my arms wide open.<br />
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N.B:I will give myself a day interval so as to prepare my post for you guys…so say I post on Monday, you won’t see me till Wednesday then Friday then Sunday then Tuesday so hope you guys get.. Once again welcome to OLISDIARY.<br />
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